Life is an obstacle course with all forms of hurdles that require you to jump, climb, run, swim, balance, crawl, or throw things strategically to be able to move on to the next stage. If you get stuck at one obstacle you cannot complete the course.
If you are resilient and try harder each time, you can beat the obstacles. Many people have been camping at their last obstacle because they were unable to conquer it. Hurdles in life are not there to stop you but to build your resilience.
It may be hard to see this and make any sense of it when you are going through difficult times. Tough times bring about conflicting emotions and taunting thoughts. You may keep wondering why you are going through what you are going through and feel overwhelmingly discouraged.
But remember that out of difficulties grow miracles. The deepest calm comes after the fiercest storm. All you have to do while in the storm is to hold on and never lose hope because this too shall pass. Better days are coming.
Accept what you are going through. Instead of trying to run away, live through it. Try to focus on the things you can control. Worrying about all the things that are beyond you only affects you negatively.
Only do what you can and let everything else fall into place on its own. Allow yourself to feel your emotions instead of fighting them. Cry if you need to. Share your intense emotions with someone close to you.
Accept the change that your situation brings because difficult times will push you to adjust. Look for the lessons you need to learn and take them with you. Just like family, we are here for you. We have a handpicked collection of powerful quotes to encourage you during those difficult times.














































![Well, I had a chip on my shoulder back then. I was like a lion that hadn’t been fed. A problem child that was too much for my teachers and parents to handle. I wonder why it’s so easy to “go bad”? Before I knew it, I’d joined “the ladies”. […] We beat people up, got beat up, started fires, got chased by the cops…to be honest, if I told you everything we did, it’d make your hair stand on end. The point is, I was an unrepentant moron. But even so, there was one person I idolized. That was Kyoko-san.](/cdn-cgi/image/width=300,height=300,fit=crop,quality=80,format=auto,onerror=redirect,metadata=none/wp-content/uploads/8674.jpeg)
![Please, just one more thing. Uo-chan’s my friend and it’s hard to see her hurting, So at least take this. Here [hands Kureno a note], it has her contact information. Accepting it doesn’t mean you have to get in touch with her right away, or ever for that matter! But, who knows? You might feel different about it tomorrow. Maybe…maybe you’ll wake up and then suddenly decide you wanna see her again. It might not be tomorrow, it could be the day after that, or a year from now, or ten years! But, as long as you’re alive, things will keep changing, in ways you can’t predict! As long as you’re alive, you’ll find new things to wish for!](/cdn-cgi/image/width=300,height=300,fit=crop,quality=80,format=auto,onerror=redirect,metadata=none/wp-content/uploads/9011.jpg)



























































































































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