128 Heartwarming Closure Quotes to Help You Find Closure

People don’t like things dangling indefinitely; they want closure. This sense of psychological completeness is calming to one’s spirit and psyche.

You don’t need to message them to receive closure and move on. You can just move on, on your own and feel better about in the long run. You don’t need anything more from them and a text won’t change anything.

You can start over again! Don’t even think about quitting now! It is easy to replay in your mind how things did not work, how much you lost, what you are going through, how angry you are. There is no amount of conversation or magic that is going to wipe the slate clean. You are wasting valuable time and energy that could be used to regain a new normal and start another version of your life. Even though you are hurt and you may be feeling down — stop kicking yourself! Face what has happened. Make the decision to start over again.

If emotional pain or problems have cropped up in your life, you must insist on getting closure. Closure means you don’t carry the problem or the pain. You address the issue, then you slam shut the book and put it away.

You can’t ever move on without the proper closure.

Moving on is not closure. It’s not neat, and it’s not about turning the page. It is about moving on, but it doesn’t mean that you’ve left something behind.

When you love yourself you will never need closure from any man. That doesn’t mean you didn’t love him, it simply means you love yourself enough to realize God has a better plan for you that doesn’t involve one more conversation that will remind you of that person’s lack of respect for you.

It’s because the door hasn’t been closed yet that the nightmares still find their way in.

See, the second reason we have burial rites is that they give people a change to say goodbye. Watching a body get put in the ground or go up in flames or be consigned to the deep, you get the sense there’s no coming back. You feel that door slam closed. And you cry or laugh or whatever’s your deal, but in some place deep inside, you know things will never be the same. They call that closure. That’s the theory, anyways.

Don’t bring heavy regrets with you as you journey forward. Forgive people and let them be. Forgive places and simply leave. Free yourself, let things

The truth is, unless you let go, unless you forgive yourself, unless you forgive the situation, unless you realize that the situation is over, you

Cry. Forgive. Learn. Move on. Let your tears water the seeds of your future happiness.

`I forgive you.’ This statement suggests attachment. If you have forgiven someone to close their chapter from your life, you won’t feel the need of

If you really want closure … at some point, you have to shut the door.

Letting go helps us to live in a more peaceful state of mind and helps restore our balance. It allows others to be responsible for

That is why it is so important to let certain things go. To release them. To cut loose. People need to understand that no one

It is always important to know when something has reached its end. Closing circles, shutting doors, finishing chapters, it doesn’t matter what we call it;

Today I close the door to the past, open the door to the future, take a deep breath, step on through and start a new

I feel like I’ve started a new chapter in my life, and I need to leave the past behind.

Restart is impossible without shutdown.

One of the most peaceful mindsets ever begins the moment you finally find the courage to let go of what you can’t change. It is

It’s a common mistake to think that holding on is something strong to do, but at times, it truly is letting go and getting a

You can’t start the next chapter of your life if you keep re-reading the last one.

You don’t need closure. You just need to give yourself permission to move on.

If you keep going backwards with the same people that God has intentionally removed from your life, you will continue to stay stuck. There is

Starting over is the hardest thing, but a quest to a new life is better when we start by letting go of all that hurts

If you wish to be happy right from the beginning of your day, then it is about time to leave behind your past.

You will find that it is necessary to let things go; simply for the reason that they are heavy. So let them go, let go

We must be willing to get rid of the life we planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us. The old

Letting go means to come to the realization that some people are a part of your history, but not a part of your destiny.

I truly believe that closure doesn’t need to come from the other person. You can always get closure from yourself.

Sometimes you do need closure in your life to get a clear sense at the end and to know about why it started and why

Sometimes you don’t get closure, you just move on.

The problem is that there is more enthusiasm for finding closure than for finding meaning.

The principle of closure is seeking a release from tension. The more that tension builds, the more we desire to find a resolution. The greater the tension, the greater the pleasure in finding closure…

I know that I’m going to die and that you’re going to die. I can’t do anything about that. But I can explore it through a metaphor and make a kind of funny, dark story about it, and in doing so, really exhaust and research as many aspects of it as I can imagine. And in a way, that does give me some closure.

Finding closure can be one of the most important challenges in dealing with grief. For some, there is no closure.

There’s a fearful term that’s in fashion at the moment – closure. People apparently believe it is desirable and attainable.

I think sometimes people really require the satisfaction of closure.

The worst closure is through an embrace.

You do what you have to do to give people closure; it makes them feel better and it doesn’t cost you much to do it. I’d rather apologize for something I didn’t really care about, and leave someone on Earth wishing me well, than to be stubborn and have that someone hoping that some alien would slurp out my brains. Call it karmic insurance.

There’s no starting over without finding closure.

What needs to be discharged is the intolerable tenderness of the past, the past gone and grieved over and never made sense of. Music ransoms us from the past, declares an amnesty, brackets and sets aside the old puzzles. Sing a new song. Start a new life, get a girl, look into her shadowy eyes, smile.

We are not afraid to look under the bed, or to wash the sheets; we know that life is messy. We know that somebody has to clean it up, and that only if it is cleaned up can we hope to start over, and get better.

What was closure if not a clock? Not an end as everyone imagined, but a beginning.

The knowledge of the past stays with us. To let go is to release the images and emotions, the grudges and fears, the clingings and disappointments of the past that bind our spirit.

The closure I placed on this chapter of my life, in the beginning wasn’t easy because we still had a lot of healing to do. But as we all know, living life is like writing a book.

Suffice it to say that at some point we need closure. Life goes on for most, but some folks become bitter and continually live in the past.

Closure is when raw memory blurs to become the folklore of life.

Nothing brings closure to a campaign like opening it up again.

Closure isn’t closure until someone’s ready to close the door.

Create a need for closure.

You have to start over. That’s what they say. But life is not a board game, and losing a loved one is never really starting over. More like continuing without.

I don’t really believe in closure. That’s something that writers talk about or people wished that they had.

Speak and live in simple sentences. Bring closure — put a period to — those experiences that you don’t want to carry on forever and ever. Use commas in those places where you’re still growing… and use exclamation points at the end of every lesson.

Closure is only a fairytale, a myth, a legend. The only true closure can come from within…this is a type of love story where the happy ending lies in not finding Prince Charming. Rather, it lies in the realization that he never existed at all.

I think it’s important to have closure in any relationship that ends from a romantic relationship to a friendship. You should always have a sense of clarity at the end and know why it began and why it ended. You need that in your life to move cleanly into your next phase.

Closure. That’s probably the most unrealistic word in the English vocabulary. It’s up there with heartbreak, pain, loss, and abandonment, all these things that you’re supposed to get over and mend and heal but really, do you ever get over those moments?

Once we have achieved inner balance, we don’t need closure from an outside source. We find closure in the perfection of the Soul and in the balanced state of mind we have when we are fully connected with our True Self.

Almost relationships mostly end without closure. You may never know why things ended or why it fizzled out, was it you or was it them—and so many other unanswered questions. You will learn that if the relationship was never defined in the first place, then it will end without explanations too.

The reason ‘closure’ is a cliche is that it is used too often, too imprecisely, and doesn’t in any case reflect reality. In reality, such closure in broken friendships and much else in life is rarely achieved; only death brings closure and then not always for those still living.

The lack of closure in an unsolved case seems to have a sharpening effect on those left behind; the details remain vivid to them even years later, possibly because they’ve gone over them looking for answers so many times.

Daddy never believed in closure. He said it was a false psychological concept. Something invented by therapists to assuage white Western guilt. In all his years of study and practice, he’d never heard a patient of color talk of needing “closure.” They needed revenge. They needed distance. Forgiveness and a good lawyer maybe, but never closure. He said people mistake suicide, murder, lap band surgery, interracial marriage, and overtipping for closure, when in reality what they’ve achieved is erasure.

You never say and do the things you wish you had said or done when someone close to you may not be around in awhile. Closure is impossible; that’s the heart of the grief you will carry with you for the rest of your life.

We demand closure as though our lives were put together as neatly as novels, but the fact of the matter is they’re not. In real life, relationships are messy and poorly written, ending too early or too late, and sometimes in the middle of a sentence.

Closure: Now there’s a silly idea. Nothing ever gets closure, the only real closure is death. Maybe it’s not a good idea to stare a dying bird in the eye. It might reflect something back at you that you don’t want to see.

There was no social ritual to indicate that I had undergone a major life event. No forty days of rest as after childbirth, no forty days of mourning after death. There was no symbolic act of closure. Like the divorce, the absence of closure would be a unique cross for me to bear.

Most of the time I lack closure; a reason. Without closure, you are perpetually haunted by the separation. Even if the reason is obvious, there is no easy way to move on, despite what people say. I have lost enough to know that when people say “You are better off” or “Just move on”, they do not understand. Most of the pain comes not from the separation itself, but from the chaos created internally.

Closure. This was a word that humans used a lot. They told themselves there had to be some sort of ritualistic ending in order to close the chapter and move on, but I wondered if chapters ever really closed, because each one was dependent on the one before.

It wasn’t closure, really. But I’d said the right things. I’d hit on some truths. Maybe some things didn’t get closure. Maybe some things weren’t really worth it, or didn’t really need it, and after a while the unimportance would become obvious.

If you were the one left hanging and clueless after the breakup, then you need to find closure first.

Whatever the endings, closure does not foreclose awareness but instead opens it—to suffering, to acceptance, to reconstruction, but always to the story of what was, is, and might be.

Like time suspended,
a wound unmended–
you and I.

We had no ending,
no said goodbye;

For all my life,
I’ll wonder why.

You don’t get explanations in real life. You just get moments that are absolutely, utterly, inexplicably odd.

‘Closure’ is the word used for a loss that’s not acknowledged – and the habit this causes, physically and mentally, for anybody who is participating in that.

Your experiences are what made you what you are today. So when tragedy happens in people’s lives, and things are left unsaid, it can be very unsettling. The lack of closure can linger.

We all lose somebody we care about and want to find some comforting way of dealing with it, something that will give us a little closure, a little peace.

For survivors, the word closure often connotes that the bereaved are underachievers who flunked a grief course.

There’s never any closure in an awe-inspired life, only constant acceptance of the mysteries of life.

The quest for closure is a journey of introspection, utterance, response, further introspection, further utterance, further response—an endlessly unfolding human text.

The concept of closure is built on two discredited myths—that grief has a timetable, and that we can somehow move beyond our grief by letting go or detaching from the person we loved.

Not being capable of mending differences or finding closure with a loved one will stay and eat at you forever.

Closure is brilliant in books and movies as a way to wrap things up in a satisfactory manner, but real life is rarely so simple.

Reality is we need closure, for every situation, why this person is toxic, why this object is useless, what am I doing wrong?

But I still need closure, The hold my past has on me Is a great weight on my shoulder.

There will be no closure, no resolution. I lie awake thinking about it and I ache. There can be no greater agony, nothing can be more painful than the not knowing, which will never end.

People tell me I should be finding “closure” in my grief, but that’s a misconception. My love and grief will never end. I will never fully close the door on my loss.

I find that talks of closure and apologies must be made and agreed upon before starting fresh, or resentment may be underlying in the relationship.

You’d think solving mysteries would bring you closure, that closing the loop would comfort and quiet your mind. But it never does. The truth always

There is no such thing as closure, and it wouldn’t be worth having if it were available, because all it would mean is that something that was quite an important part of you had gone numb.

I begin my day online and end my day online. I like to prepare myself for the next day and have a sense of closure before I go to bed.

You want a storybook kind of closure with someone when they die, but I think that kind of thing is impossible.

I’m not interested in closure. Some people just have heart attacks and die, right? There’s no closure.

Closure is just as delusive, it is the false hope that we can deaden our living grief.

I sort of don’t believe in closure. In the sense that it doesn’t make me feel better to think that something is over.

Closure is a greasy little word which, moreover, describes a nonexistent condition. The truth, Venus, is that nobody gets over anything.

Closure is a neurotic and infantile demand to make upon reality, other people, or language.

I don’t believe you ever get closure on anything. Things leave a permanent mark on you.

Closure means the door is “kinda shut”..we use it like a temporary swab to dab a bleeding wound that will never heal–only clot.

I realize that not everyone could be granted the chance of getting a decent closure – most people just deal with the decisions they made then on their own.

…closure, that impossible thing that no one had ever experienced in life, because there always seemed to be a little aperture, a slit of light.

Closure is a false harmony, a siren song masquerading as a swan song.

You don’t wake up in the morning with a thought of “Suicide”… it happens when less closure happens between humans, you don’t have exit points… and you create your own loop hole.

Listen, there are different ways of getting closure and one of those ways might be to make someone miserable for the sake of satisfying your petty soul.

Closure doesn’t really exist….That’s why we’re always looking for it.

If you’re hurt, get a closure asap. Once pus collects in the wound, scratching it gives more pleasure than healing it.

Closure, for me, would mean accepting my circumstances rather than trying to alter them to serve me best.

I tried to find it but there was no answer at the end of the last conversation – closure.

Just like you left me without closure, I’m over you without forgiving you.