104 Best Pain Quotes That Will Toughen And Make You Resilient

Pain

There is no gain without pain. At least, that's how most of life works. If you want something, you have to sweat for it. There's a saying that goes, ‘mtaka cha mvunguni sharti ainame.' This means that if you want something that's under the bed, you have to bend to get it.

Many instances in life require you to go through a period of pain before being able to get what you want. It doesn't have to be physical pain. It could be emotional or psychological pain. Sometimes you will go through painful experiences to learn important lessons that will take you to the next stage in life.

You could lose a job you love which can hurt a lot. But that only lasts for a period as a better job may await you right ahead. You could experience the worst heartbreak of your life and be so broken that you think you'll never get yourself together again.

You could also lose someone close to you and feel like you will mourn for them forever because the pain is unbearable. However, you need to remember that pain only strengthens you. It will be tough. It will be very hard. Most times, it will feel like too much for you to bear.

But we draw our strength from pain. It builds resilience in us and we are able to face tomorrow more fiercely than we did today. Pain makes us who we are. It creates the conquerers within us.

So if you are going through pain, remember that. These pain quotes show you that all greatness has to pass through the fire first. Even gold has to go through intense heat to get refined to perfection. Your pain is personal but it's also where you will draw most of your strength in life. Read along!

Pain Quotes

Being strong doesn’t mean you’ll never get hurt. It means even when you get hurt, you’ll never let it defeat you.

Being strong doesn’t mean you’ll never get hurt. It means even when you get hurt, you’ll never let it defeat you.

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I am going to tell you to heal yourself up, or let go of sorrow you have right now, because everyone heals at their own pace, Be positive and keep your head up. No matter how much hurt you are or whatever the situation is, a positive mind can always beat that.

I am going to tell you to heal yourself up, or let go of sorrow you have right now, because everyone heals at their own pace, Be positive and keep your head up. No matter how much hurt you are or whatever the situation is, a positive mind can always beat that.

When time is wrong and everything seems shattering, never give up and keep your head up. It is because being vulnerable will only make the pain grow faster.

When time is wrong and everything seems shattering, never give up and keep your head up. It is because being vulnerable will only make the pain grow faster.

The pain that you are feeling cannot compare to the joy that is coming. Never give up just because it’s hard right now. Keep your head up.

The pain that you are feeling cannot compare to the joy that is coming. Never give up just because it’s hard right now. Keep your head up.

Tohru Honda: It must've been very painful, Akito...being told the day you were born, you were going die. It must've been so painful. Akito Sohma: What was!? What would you know about it!?! Tohru Honda: You're right. I can't even imagine how awful it would be to know something like that, or how terrifying. Shigure and Yuki and Kyo I'm sure they feel the same way, and Hatori too. And when you pass away, we'll be sad. We'll be very sad to lose you. And so... Akito Sohma: Heh. Who's going to be sad? Everyone is able to live thanks to me. They all hope I will be gone quickly. I was born in order to die. That's how it was decided. Tohru Honda: But why? Who decided it had to be like that? Akito, right now you're alive aren't you? Akito Sohma: Alive!? You call this being alive, do you?! It's been decided! It's been decided, and they never even asked me!

Tohru Honda: It must’ve been very painful, Akito…being told the day you were born, you were going die. It must’ve been so painful.
Akito Sohma: What

Greater is he who suffers through the pain and comes through the other side improved. Greater is he who accepts discouragement and keeps forward momentum, never retreating. Greater is he who sees the light at the end of the tunnel and keeps their eye on the light. Greater is he who gets knocked off his feet and gets back up, dusts himself off and gets back in the fight. Life is tough, but you are stronger.

Greater is he who suffers through the pain and comes through the other side improved. Greater is he who accepts discouragement and keeps forward momentum,

Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward.

Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward.

If emotional pain or problems have cropped up in your life, you must insist on getting closure. Closure means you don’t carry the problem or the pain. You address the issue, then you slam shut the book and put it away.

If emotional pain or problems have cropped up in your life, you must insist on getting closure. Closure means you don’t carry the problem or the pain. You address the issue, then you slam shut the book and put it away.

It hurts, because we wanted a different outcome, but then we make it hurt even worse by creating a narrative around what happened. So, instead of creating that debilitating narrative, I think we're better served realizing that now, we have an opportunity to pivot - to take our life in a different direction.

It hurts, because we wanted a different outcome, but then we make it hurt even worse by creating a narrative around what happened.

So, instead of creating that debilitating narrative, I think we’re better served realizing that now, we have an opportunity to pivot – to take our life in a different direction.

Ralph reflected for a moment on the similarities between loneliness and insomnia — how they were both insidious, cumulative, and divisive, the friends of despair and the enemies of love.

Ralph reflected for a moment on the similarities between loneliness and insomnia — how they were both insidious, cumulative, and divisive, the friends of despair

You don't know what happened. You couldn't. Because you weren't there to see it. So I don't care what you've heard. Nothing about her is monstrous. Nothing. You... You don't know how scared she was that night. So don't try and tell me she wasn't! Her hands were shaking. Her voice was trembling. Her skin was cold to the touch, and her face pale with fear. Even so, she stood her ground and refused to run away from me! That's right! She was terrified, but she didn't run. She stayed! She held onto me the whole time! She must have known that if she let go... I would never return. If I slipped through her hands, I'd be gone. And no one would be able to bring me back. She didn't erase all my pain or offer to solve all of my problems. She didn't fix everything that was broken. But that's not what I needed anyway. Not really. What mattered most was that... she stayed.

You don’t know what happened. You couldn’t. Because you weren’t there to see it. So I don’t care what you’ve heard. Nothing about her is monstrous. Nothing. You… You don’t know how scared she was that night. So don’t try and tell me she wasn’t! Her hands were shaking. Her voice was trembling. Her skin was cold to the touch, and her face pale with fear. Even so, she stood her ground and refused to run away from me! That’s right! She was terrified, but she didn’t run. She stayed! She held onto me the whole time! She must have known that if she let go… I would never return. If I slipped through her hands, I’d be gone. And no one would be able to bring me back. She didn’t erase all my pain or offer to solve all of my problems. She didn’t fix everything that was broken. But that’s not what I needed anyway. Not really. What mattered most was that… she stayed.

Momiji Sohma: Are you sure? Shigure said it hurt really bad. Hatori Sohma: Yes, well, I did that on purpose. Shigure Sohma: Oh, Ha'ri, you're killing me! Why would you be so cruel? Hatori Sohma: It seemed to be the only way to shut you up at the time.

Momiji Sohma: Are you sure? Shigure said it hurt really bad.
Hatori Sohma: Yes, well, I did that on purpose.
Shigure Sohma: Oh, Ha’ri, you’re killing me!

Kagura Sohma: I'll take his good traits with his bad! Even if he turns into his true form, I'll stand by hi-- Kyo Sohma: That's...enough! Keep talking like that...and I'll never forgive you! Kagura Sohma: WHAT DO YOU MEAN YOU'LL NEVER FORGIVE ME?! Kyo Sohma: OWWWWW!

Kagura Sohma: I’ll take his good traits with his bad! Even if he turns into his true form, I’ll stand by hi–
Kyo Sohma: That’s…enough! Keep

Kyo’s father: She loved you. She loved you more than anything else in the world! Kyo Sohma: STOP IT, YOU’RE WRONG! Don’t force that love on me. I don’t need it. I don’t.

Kyo’s father: She loved you. She loved you more than anything else in the world!
Kyo Sohma: STOP IT, YOU’RE WRONG! Don’t force that love on

Kyo Sohma: If I’m going to lose her anyway, I won’t hold back. I’ll hurt her so badly that she’ll never forgive me. So badly she’ll never have to worry about me again. I’ll wreck everything so she’ll never want to look back. I can’t take it. I’m sick of losing people. Sick of pity. Sick of being miserable. Sick of having things forced on me. Kyo’s mother: No, honey. You’re as human as anyone else. You turn into that form sometimes because of evil magic. Not because there’s anything wrong with you. You’re back to normal soon after right? That proves it! You’re not a monster. It’s okay, I promise. I’m not scared at all. Kyo Sohma: Liar. You were scared, weren’t you? Isn’t that why you checked dozens of times every day to make sure the beads were still on?

Kyo Sohma: If I’m going to lose her anyway, I won’t hold back. I’ll hurt her so badly that she’ll never forgive me. So badly

Alright, no Kana. But maybe, you’ll find someone else to love. Someone who doesn’t bring you pain or sadness. A woman who brings you joy and hope instead.

Alright, no Kana. But maybe, you’ll find someone else to love. Someone who doesn’t bring you pain or sadness. A woman who brings you joy

Just as there are people who inflict pain, there are those who try to soothe that pain in themselves and others alike. That gives people courage, if nothing else.

Just as there are people who inflict pain, there are those who try to soothe that pain in themselves and others alike. That gives people

Kyo Sohma: You were ashamed of me. Kyo's Mother: No, I... I love you. I would die for you. I-I love you so much. Kyo Sohma: Why is that all you ever say? You never really accepted me, not the real me. You were just saying all the things you thought a mom was supposed to say.

Kyo Sohma: You were ashamed of me.
Kyo’s Mother: No, I… I love you. I would die for you. I-I love you so much.
Kyo Sohma: Why

It's times like this... That I realize... How much pain these people live with... Having been born possessed by vengeful spirits.

It’s times like this… That I realize… How much pain these people live with… Having been born possessed by vengeful spirits.

I want to take any memory... And hold it in my heart... And believe that. So I can be someone who won't let those memories defeat me. Someday we'll overcome the pain... And we'll have precious memories.

I want to take any memory… And hold it in my heart… And believe that. So I can be someone who won’t let those memories

We thought surely you would join us for the New Year's banquet, but you failed to do so. Such a shame. Akito was especially distressed by your absence. You would do well return to Akito's side before you cause any irreparable harm.

We thought surely you would join us for the New Year’s banquet, but you failed to do so. Such a shame. Akito was especially distressed

Tohru... I-- I'm sorry... I... I thought-- No, I knew... I knew... Tohru... Let's end this! End it! I know... I know it's painful... But you can...

Tohru… I– I’m sorry… I… I thought– No, I knew… I knew… Tohru… Let’s end this! End it! I know… I know it’s painful… But

The other members of the zodiac seemed to have so much pain... But I'm DIFFERENT. Papa and mama are DIFFERENT. We always have fun. We're always smiling and happy. It was just like... We were inside a PLAY. With just that... One question... The play... Came to an end. Even though... They hated me... Even though... I was a burden... They PUSHED themselves. They were ALWAYS pushing themselves. They pushed themselves... And in the end... They BROKE... And could never... Go back. They said... They didn't really want me... I'm scared. Haru... I'm scared. I'M SO SCARED... I CAN'T TAKE IT! I'll never forget that feeling, every time I entered my house... That feeling... Of praying with all my heart. Of wondering if they were in a good mood... Or if they still hated me. I told myself I'd wait until it passes. Like a "thing" without feelings. Like a stone. Until the day, someday... When they'll... Forgive me. You will... Forgive me, won't you? We can go back... To the way things were, can't we?

The other members of the zodiac seemed to have so much pain… But I’m DIFFERENT. Papa and mama are DIFFERENT. We always have fun. We’re

It's just that I'm fighting the pain of lost love. I guess it's what you'd call a rude awakening... or, maybe... the weight of responsibility? But I'm fine. I'm fine. Caring for someone isn't based on logic. You can't really rationalize emotions. Once I think "I like him"... it's all over.

It’s just that I’m fighting the pain of lost love. I guess it’s what you’d call a rude awakening… or, maybe… the weight of responsibility?

Even if you've never experienced the wonderful things in life, only after something has been contaminated and marred will it become a beautiful thing. Pain can be healed with gentle care, darkness can be removed with sunlight. Don't underestimate the small things. Everything is significant.

Even if you’ve never experienced the wonderful things in life, only after something has been contaminated and marred will it become a beautiful thing. Pain can be healed with gentle care, darkness can be removed with sunlight. Don’t underestimate the small things. Everything is significant.

That's ONE thing that's wrong with intellectuals and writers - they don't feel a hell of a lot except their own comfort or their own pain. Which is normal but shitty.

That’s ONE thing that’s wrong with intellectuals and writers – they don’t feel a hell of a lot except their own comfort or their own pain. Which is normal but shitty.

To ask them to legalize pot is something like asking them to put butter on the handcuffs before they place them on you: something else is hurting you — that's why you need pot, or whiskey, or whips and rubber suits, or screaming music turned so fucking loud you can't think. Or madhouses or mechanical cunts or 162 baseball games in a season. Or Vietnam or Israel or the fear of spiders.

To ask them to legalize pot is something like asking them to put butter on the handcuffs before they place them on you: something else is hurting you — that’s why you need pot, or whiskey, or whips and rubber suits, or screaming music turned so fucking loud you can’t think. Or madhouses or mechanical cunts or 162 baseball games in a season. Or Vietnam or Israel or the fear of spiders.

morning night and noon the traffic moves through and the murder and treachery of friends and lovers and all the people move through you. pain is the joy of knowing the unkindest truth that arrives without warning. life is being alone death is being alone. even the fools weep morning night and noon.

morning night and noon
the traffic moves through
and the murder and treachery
of friends and lovers
and all the people
move through you.

pain is the joy of knowing
the unkindest truth
that arrives without
warning.

life is being alone
death is being alone.

even the fools weep

morning night and noon.

We're told that men are strong & brave, but I think women know how to endure, accept defeat & bear physical & mental agony much better than men.

We’re told that men are strong & brave, but I think women know how to endure, accept defeat & bear physical & mental agony much better than men.

There are so many things I can never get back. So much pain. So many tears. So, so much. I've had things stolen from me. I've been hurt. It feels so unbelievably unfair. I can never, ever forgive her. But even so… I'm tired of always looking down and missing what's important.

There are so many things I can never get back. So much pain. So many tears. So, so much. I’ve had things stolen from me. I’ve been hurt. It feels so unbelievably unfair. I can never, ever forgive her. But even so… I’m tired of always looking down and missing what’s important.

"You're fine," Takumi said as he jogged back towards me. "Let's get out of here before we're killed." "I'm sorry," I said. "But I can't get up. I have suffered a mild concussion." Lara ran out and sat down next to me. "Are you OK?" "I am concussed," I said. Takumi sat down with me and looked me in the eye. "Do you know what happened to you?" "The beast got me." "Do you know where you are?" "I'm on a triple-and-a-half date." "You're fine," Takumi said. "Let's go." And then I leaned forward and threw up on Lara's pants.

“You’re fine,” Takumi said as he jogged back towards me. “Let’s get out of here before we’re killed.”
“I’m sorry,” I said. “But I can’t get up. I have suffered a mild concussion.”
Lara ran out and sat down next to me.
“Are you OK?”
“I am concussed,” I said.
Takumi sat down with me and looked me in the eye. “Do you know what happened to you?”
“The beast got me.”
“Do you know where you are?”
“I’m on a triple-and-a-half date.”
“You’re fine,” Takumi said. “Let’s go.”
And then I leaned forward and threw up on Lara’s pants.

There's nothing like starting over There's nothing like shedding a heartache Writing a new page to say what you wanna say There's nothing like a heart wide open.

There’s nothing like starting over
There’s nothing like shedding a heartache
Writing a new page to say what you wanna say
There’s nothing like a heart wide open.

And now we're starting over again It's not the easiest thing to do I'm feeling inside again 'Cause every time I look at you I know we're starting over again This time we'll love all the pain away Welcome home my lover and friend We are starting over, over again.

And now we’re starting over again
It’s not the easiest thing to do
I’m feeling inside again
‘Cause every time I look at you
I know we’re starting over again
This time we’ll love all the pain away
Welcome home my lover and friend
We are starting over, over again.

Birthing is never easy or without pain, be it a universe, a child, or a fresh start in life. Contraction precedes expansion. Darkness comes before dawn. Joy follows pain. This is the way of things.

Birthing is never easy or without pain, be it a universe, a child, or a fresh start in life. Contraction precedes expansion. Darkness comes before dawn. Joy follows pain. This is the way of things.

But in the time between when something gets thought and when it gets done, the ball hit me square across the side of the face. I fell, the back of my head slamming against the gym floor. I then stood up immediately, as if unhurt, and left the gym. Pride had gotten me off the floor of the gym, but as soon as I was outside, I sat down. "I am concussed," I announced, entirely sure of my self-diagnosis.

But in the time between when something gets thought and when it gets done, the ball hit me square across the side of the face. I fell, the back of my head slamming against the gym floor. I then stood up immediately, as if unhurt, and left the gym.
Pride had gotten me off the floor of the gym, but as soon as I was outside, I sat down.
“I am concussed,” I announced, entirely sure of my self-diagnosis.

We were in Jon's car. "I have the first part I need. The pain-killer. You see I had to go to a doctor for an ingrown toenail. He operated. Then he gave me a pain-killer afterwards. It worked great..." "Where are we going?" "You'll see. Anyhow, I had to go back to get the toe checked. I said to the doctor, 'That pain-killer was great, it lasted ten hours. Tell me about it.' He told me about it. Then I asked him, 'Can I see it?' And he took me to this medicine cabinet and pointed it out. 'Very interesting,' I said. We talked a bit more, then I left. But I had a bag with me, a small travelling bag. I left it by the medicine cabinet. Then I left the office, came back. 'Oh,' I told the receptionist, 'I left my bag.' I went to get the bag and there was nobody around. I opened the cabinet and took the pain-killer." "You can't do this," I told Jon. "I must," he answered.

We were in Jon’s car. “I have the first part I need. The pain-killer. You see I had to go to a doctor for an ingrown toenail. He operated. Then he gave me a pain-killer afterwards. It worked great…”
“Where are we going?”
“You’ll see. Anyhow, I had to go back to get the toe checked. I said to the doctor, ‘That pain-killer was great, it lasted ten hours. Tell me about it.’ He told me about it. Then I asked him, ‘Can I see it?’ And he took me to this medicine cabinet and pointed it out. ‘Very interesting,’ I said. We talked a bit more, then I left. But I had a bag with me, a small travelling bag. I left it by the medicine cabinet. Then I left the office, came back. ‘Oh,’ I told the receptionist, ‘I left my bag.’ I went to get the bag and there was nobody around. I opened the cabinet and took the pain-killer.”
“You can’t do this,” I told Jon.
“I must,” he answered.

When you treasure someone, it can be a little painful to see them find happiness with another and sometimes you may get lonely…but it also can make you happy.

When you treasure someone, it can be a little painful to see them find happiness with another and sometimes you may get lonely…but it also can make you happy.

Did someone break your heart, Arisa-san…? […] There are some things that take a long time to acquire, like friends or lovers. So it wasn’t for nothing.

Did someone break your heart, Arisa-san…? […] There are some things that take a long time to acquire, like friends or lovers. So it wasn’t for nothing.

There are times when true love will be a source of pain, and one that you must accept. Because to truly love someone, is to put their feelings before your own, no matter what. Keep putting yourself first, and you will only succeed in pushing them away.

There are times when true love will be a source of pain, and one that you must accept. Because to truly love someone, is to put their feelings before your own, no matter what. Keep putting yourself first, and you will only succeed in pushing them away.

If You're Disappointed Or Lost Something, Don't Stay In That Situation For Long.... Be Like Hydra Which Has Never Die Attitude.... When It Loses One Part of It's Body, It Reproduces Again.... So, Transform Your Pain To A New Birth....

If You’re Disappointed Or Lost Something, Don’t Stay In That Situation For Long…. Be Like Hydra Which Has Never Die Attitude…. When It Loses One Part of It’s Body, It Reproduces Again…. So, Transform Your Pain To A New Birth….

What's broken can be mended. What's hurt can be healed. That no matter how dark it gets the sun's going to rise again.

What’s broken can be mended. What’s hurt can be healed. That no matter how dark it gets the sun’s going to rise again.

I have learned from my own pain is that God's plan for all of us is peace. Being a role model to peace, and spreading peace through being peaceful ourselves. It's about choosing peace instead of pain - this is the bottom line.

I have learned from my own pain is that God’s plan for all of us is peace. Being a role model to peace, and spreading peace through being peaceful ourselves. It’s about choosing peace instead of pain – this is the bottom line.

Trautman: How's the wound? Rambo: You taught us to ignore pain, right? Trautman: Is it working? Rambo: Not really. Don't take it personal. Trautman: Thanks.

Trautman: How’s the wound?
Rambo: You taught us to ignore pain, right?
Trautman: Is it working?
Rambo: Not really. Don’t take it personal.
Trautman: Thanks.

Podovsky: I see you are no stranger to pain. Perhaps you have been among my Vietnamese comrades before, hm? No answer. Do you wish to give your name? Now, what possible harm can that cause? Pride is a poor substitute for intelligence. What you must understand is that we have to interrogate you. To Sergeant Yushin here, you are a piece of meat. A laboratory experiment. But to me, you are a comrade, similar to myself, just opposed by an act of fate. I know you are trying to facilitate the release of war criminals held by this republic. I can appreciate this. But this incident, your capture is... embarrassing. We must have explanation. First of all, I wish you to radio your headquarters and say that you have been captured and condemned for espionage activities, and that no such criminal aggression should be attempted in the future or they will meet with the same fate as yours. Rambo: Fuck you.

Podovsky: I see you are no stranger to pain. Perhaps you have been among my Vietnamese comrades before, hm? No answer. Do you wish to give your name? Now, what possible harm can that cause? Pride is a poor substitute for intelligence. What you must understand is that we have to interrogate you. To Sergeant Yushin here, you are a piece of meat. A laboratory experiment. But to me, you are a comrade, similar to myself, just opposed by an act of fate. I know you are trying to facilitate the release of war criminals held by this republic. I can appreciate this. But this incident, your capture is… embarrassing. We must have explanation. First of all, I wish you to radio your headquarters and say that you have been captured and condemned for espionage activities, and that no such criminal aggression should be attempted in the future or they will meet with the same fate as yours.
Rambo: Fuck you.

I still think that maybe the “afterlife” is just something we made up to ease the pain of loss, to make our time in the labyrinth bearable. Maybe we are just matter, and matter gets recycled.

I still think that maybe the “afterlife” is just something we made up to ease the pain of loss, to make our time in the labyrinth bearable. Maybe we are just matter, and matter gets recycled.

"No, really. I can do it. It's okay." Because you simply cannot draw these things out forever. At some point, you just pull off the Band-Aid and it hurts, but then it’s over and you’re relieved.

“No, really. I can do it. It’s okay.” Because you simply cannot draw these things out forever. At some point, you just pull off the Band-Aid and it hurts, but then it’s over and you’re relieved.

Death is something untimely and will always leave the heart, soul, and mind wounded because a piece of our own lives feels scraped away when we lose someone. Though the pain is unfortunate, God always knows best.

Death is something untimely and will always leave the heart, soul, and mind wounded because a piece of our own lives feels scraped away when we lose someone. Though the pain is unfortunate, God always knows best.

There are some nights when sleep plays coy, aloof and disdainful. And all the wiles that I employ to win its service to my side are useless as wounded pride, and much more painful.

There are some nights when
sleep plays coy,
aloof and disdainful.
And all the wiles
that I employ to win
its service to my side
are useless as wounded pride,
and much more painful.

Sleep deprivation is physically miserable and creatively cathartic, as internal landscapes rise up from their dormant ashes.

Sleep deprivation is physically miserable and creatively cathartic, as internal landscapes rise up from their dormant ashes.

It takes spells of aching and gives you a sleepless night now and then, but between times it lets you enjoy life and dreams and echoes and peanut candy as if there were nothing the matter with it.

It takes spells of aching and gives you a sleepless night now and then, but between times it lets you enjoy life and dreams and echoes and peanut candy as if there were nothing the matter with it.

And at 3am you sit near the window and wonder if there is magic... because all you need are some fairies to take your pain away and help you sleep... you take a book to read... you take a pen and a paper to write...you cling on some music that might just make you fall asleep... yet nothing helps... another sleepless night and all you want is the dawn to break soon....

And at 3am you sit near the window and wonder if there is magic… because all you need are some fairies to take your pain away and help you sleep… you take a book to read… you take a pen and a paper to write…you cling on some music that might just make you fall asleep… yet nothing helps… another sleepless night and all you want is the dawn to break soon….

When I don't sleep, it's not that I feel tired so much as assaulted. In the morning after a night of no sleep my eyes are sore and tender and can barely open. My joints ache. There's a taste in my mouth which isn't like any other taste, only a feeling, and that feeling is defeat. My skull aches evenly across its hemisphere. [...] I go to bed at night, I get beaten up, come downstairs in the morning. Then I go about the day as if things were normal and I hadn't been beaten up, and everyone else treats me as if I hadn't been beaten up, and that way I survive, but no more than that. If somebody willed your destruction they could do it this way, by taking away your sleep. Of course, it's tried and tested.

When I don’t sleep, it’s not that I feel tired so much as assaulted. In the morning after a night of no sleep my eyes are sore and tender and can barely open. My joints ache. There’s a taste in my mouth which isn’t like any other taste, only a feeling, and that feeling is defeat. My skull aches evenly across its hemisphere. […] I go to bed at night, I get beaten up, come downstairs in the morning. Then I go about the day as if things were normal and I hadn’t been beaten up, and everyone else treats me as if I hadn’t been beaten up, and that way I survive, but no more than that. If somebody willed your destruction they could do it this way, by taking away your sleep. Of course, it’s tried and tested.

I wanted to put my present joy in the context of all the past pain, to show that there really is light at the end of the tunnel.

I wanted to put my present joy in the context of all the past pain, to show that there really is light at the end of the tunnel.

Closure. That's probably the most unrealistic word in the English vocabulary. It's up there with heartbreak, pain, loss, and abandonment, all these things that you're supposed to get over and mend and heal but really, do you ever get over those moments?

Closure. That’s probably the most unrealistic word in the English vocabulary. It’s up there with heartbreak, pain, loss, and abandonment, all these things that you’re supposed to get over and mend and heal but really, do you ever get over those moments?

There will be no closure, no resolution. I lie awake thinking about it and I ache. There can be no greater agony, nothing can be more painful than the not knowing, which will never end.

There will be no closure, no resolution. I lie awake thinking about it and I ache. There can be no greater agony, nothing can be more painful than the not knowing, which will never end.

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Maggie organized the quotes into topics.

Charity wrote the introduction copy.

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