Would you rather go first, last, or be somewhere in the middle? If you prefer being first, you tend to be confident in yourself and your decisions. If you would prefer going last, you tend to be timid and not too confident with your choices.
If you prefer to be somewhere in the middle, that means that you are not as confident and you are not that timid. You can still stand up for what you want, but it depends on the situation. Whichever your character is, own it and try to learn more about what makes you tick.
Irregardless, it must feel good to be the first in something. It could be in school or work performance. You could be the first person someone thinks of in any situation making you their priority. You could also be a pioneer and be the first to do something.
These are all great instances that make you feel appreciated, seen, and accomplished. Here are first quotes to relate to.